I Am 39 & Pregnant But My Boyfriend Says He's Not Ready.



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Please, let's advise her;

"Hi guys,

I dated this guy when I was in the university and we broke up. Fast forward years later we meet again and he we start off dating barely months now.

I discovered I'm pregnant yesterday and he says he's not ready for a child cos he's financially not okay amidst other things.

I am not prepared for pregnancy at the time but I'm 39 years old.

I had a major surgery (myomectomy) 2years ago. As it appears he may not marry me. This wasn't my plan for my life (having a child ouuta wedlock)


What are my options health wise of conceiving in the future?"



You had myomectomy to remove fibroid and to-God-be-the-glory, you still got pregnant at an age when women are running upandan searching for the fruit of the womb...
Are you not aware that couples are spending colossal sums on IVF mostly to no avail?
Can't believe you are considering one yeye man who obviously has no plans to ever marry you.
I wish you were in front of me right now, I would have slapped the sawdust out of your brains.
My dear, go with the ONLY option available.
Born it!!!






2 comments:

Anonymous said...

It's tough. Very difficult to be a single mom. It puts your life on hold. Bad to do abortion too. So tough. Can't advise

Anonymous said...

i can advice very well. Have the child. It will not be easy but you will be fine. that guy sef. hmm.

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